Lets face it on the logical level any message written , emailed, texted or blogged about is essentially plain text. It has no meaning in it self. Only when you read the words and what those words mean to you as the reader, the message makes sense. However as everyone will relate to words in different ways, the reader and the writer could have meant something in different ways, based on ones own perception on the meaning they give to a words.

Example: You work in a place where you deal with people from different parts of the world. Some people will have English as their native language and some will not. Some will be more fluent and others will not. People who may not have a proper or full grasp of the English language as one example, may be direct in the way they write. Others will be more relaxed.

What can end up happening is that the reader will add their own feelings and emotions to the message and could end up giving it a different meaning or blowing it out of proportion.

We basically end up creating/adding our own thoughts to a plain text message which could be experienced in many different ways depending on our own mood.

A message such as……..  “Get out of here!”  could mean many things, but depending on your mood or how your own brain relates to you will add extra bits to its context and possibly make it seem more or less then what it is.

The moral of the story is, you will add your own bits to a message based on many things, ie if you know the person, then perhaps you will bring their persona into mind and think how that person would say it and you see it in your mind as that, or if you don’t know a person  then you might make up a voice in your own head of what you think that person sounds like? You might have just watched a move that got you in a mushy mood so you may read the message from a place of joy, happiness or sadness.

The words and their meanings will differ for different people, bare this in mind as you never know how people will react to the words you use based on their current mode…. Interesting

Monkeys are good listeners and tackle complicated situations with ease. This Sign’s natural curiosity gives it a broad-based intellectual curiosity. Monkeys have a show-off side that loves nothing more than to impress their friends with all they know.

The Monkey’s world, full reckless energy and revelry, isn’t for everyone. Remember, though, it’s not that this Sign is mean; it might just be a bit too curious for its own good. Monkeys often feel the need to try everything at least once, which can make for a merry-go-round of relationships.

The Monkey’s love of self-indulgence can also lead to other types of trouble. This Sign may have limited self-control concerning food, alcohol and other pleasurable activities. It’s party time all the time for the Monkey, yet when it leads to a monster hangover or a shattered heart (generally someone else’s, not theirs), this Sign might actually show a touch of remorse. They won’t flat-out admit the error of their ways, but at least they’ll pull back and try to tone things down — for a while.

Monkeys must try to learn to think of others ahead of themselves, at least some of the time. This Sign’s world will be more complete once it realizes the world doesn’t revolve around it.

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Yes, it does. There are far more creative ways of dealing with such things. I bumped into a man in a hurry at a restaurant recently who said apologetically, “Oh, excuse me,” but I immediately turned to him and said, “Hi, I’m Dr. Demartini. We must have been attracted to each other for a reason. What’s your name?” and put my hand out to exchange a hand shake.

I started a conversation, made an interesting acquaintance, and almost enrolled him in my seminar that weekend. Instead of thinking it was a mistake, feeling guilty and apologizing and running that whole illusion. Why not see it as some kind of synchronicity. Find out what that synchronicity is, and turn it into a blessing and an opportunity? There are no mistakes in a divinely ordered universe. Why play into the illusion by apologizing for and forgiving divine order? Go beyond forgiveness, find the order, and be present with whatever happens. Of coarse you may be thinking this is not proper social etiquette, but neither is buying into or promoting unnecessary fear and guilt and helping people add to the already overloaded emotional baggage.

When most people use the term they mean, “I forgive you, but don’t ever do it again.” And what that really means is, “I still have a button on this. I judge you, and I’m righteous enough to put you down and humble you over it.”

To me, that’s incomplete and only conditional love. I say forgiveness is still blocked love. It implies guilt and is but a stepping-stone along the way to the truth of love. Faith is like forgiveness a stepping-stone along the path to the truth of love. Faith and forgiveness are stepping-stones on the journey that have no meaning when you arrive at the truth of love.

The only real meaning of forgiveness to me is, “Thank you for-giving-me this experience,” whatever it may be. If you can say that, I call it true transcendent forgiveness. Then you are no longer fearful or a victim of what people do around you, or what you do to others.

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